| The guy that you have fancied
for ages has asked you out on a date and you've spent
all day getting ready. Then when he turns up he looks
like he's been dragged through a bush backwards and that
is just his hair. He is wearing a tatty t-shirt and an
old pair of jeans while you are all made up. It's to late
to get changed so you leave with him anyway. Where does
he take you? Yes you`ve got it to your local pub where
he spends half the night talking to his friends and the
other half talking about them. Then to top it off he takes
you for fish and chips. The whole date was a complete
disaster. He is not the guy you thought he was and you
don't know why you even fancied him in the first place.
So what do you do when it is time to say good night?
How do you avoid the end of the date kiss? And how do
you let him down gently without being to harsh?
It is obvious you have no intentions of seeing him
again so don't beat about the bush just get straight
to the point. Sometimes being nice just doesn't work.
Being too nice to a guy that you have no interest in
can lead to mixed signals giving them the wrong idea
and sometimes unwanted advances.
First off - thank him for a nice date and explain that
he is not the type of person you are looking for. If
he asks for a second chance and asks you to go on another
date with him; you must be firm with him. If you don't
want to have any kind of relationship with the guy then
you have to make it quite clear.
Don't tell him that you want to be friends, unless
you are really serious about being his friend. If you
don't want to see him again make this very clear and
avoid any contact with him at all. Even giving into
a good night kiss will send out the wrong signals and
that is the last thing you want.
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