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Do you strike out with single women in the romance
department no matter what you do? You can even be a
drop-dead good-looking guy, but unless you know what
is offensive to a woman's ears, you are likely to stick
your foot in your mouth and make a fool of yourself
and turn off women.
With today's single woman you need to know what she
wants and then give to her without sounding phony. The
following are some common mistakes men make when dating
single women that turn women off:
When talking to or about single women, are you still
living back in time and calling them babes, broads,
chicks, or something even more repulsive? Always call
a woman by her name! If you use these terms mentioned,
you will insult and turn single women completely off.
When out on a date, do you spend all of your time eyeing
other women in the bar, nightclub, or restaurant? Don't
even think for a minute that she won't notice. She will
not only notice, but may be so turned off by your behavior
that she may never want to see you again. Always focus
all of your undivided attention on the woman you're
with. Treat her like a Princess and she will make you
her Prince.
Another common mistake men make early in a relationship
with a single woman is being too sexually aggressive.
After just meeting a woman you don't want to come on
all hot & horny and all you can focus on is jumping
her bones and pawing at her body. This kind of behavior
can scare women and turn them off. They usually don't
like a complete stranger pawing at their bodies and
making sexual overtones. Get to know her first to where
she is comfortable with you and then make your physical
moves.
When talking to a woman, do find yourself concentrating
totally on her breasts? This is a real no no! Always
look women in the eyes when talking to her. Believe
me, if all you can do is stare at her breasts, she will
catch on to it and will ditch you as soon as possible.
Women don't like men who constantly stare at their breasts.
In a topless club it's OK, but not when you just meet
a woman or in the early stages of dating.
If a woman wants to be independent, let her. For instance,
if she wants to change her own flat tire, let her. If
she wants to open her own door, let her. If she wants
to order her own food or wine, let her. Let her assert
her independence. It will make a good impression on
her. You're making a big mistake if you want to act
Macho all the time and not let her act independent if
this is what she desires.
Some misguided men think it's sexy and cool to brag
about what a great lover they have been to their other
girlfriends, about getting high on drugs, or how good
they can hold their liquor. You are not impressing women
with this. As a matter a fact, she will probably find
that you are obnoxious and potentially dangerous.
In closing, if you are making any of these dating blunders
and displaying these offensive habits, get them corrected
immediately. I hate to keep pounding this into your
head, but if you turn women off, you are stacking the
odds against yourself in successfully meeting, dating,
attracting, and seducing single women.
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