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You have answered a personal ad of the single woman
of your dreams. From the description of her ad she seems
like a perfect match for you for romance and a possible
serious relationship. You write her a letter and anxiously
wait to hear back from her. And you wait...and wait...and
wait and you never hear from her.
So, you wonder what went wrong? Is she rejecting me?
Did I say something in my letter that turned her off?
Why won't she write back?
Most likely you made some common mistakes that turn
single women off or caused them to lose interest in
you. Listed here are some things that may have gone
wrong so you can take corrective measures on the next
personal ad you answer:
1. Your letter was too sexually suggestive. When writing
to a woman for the first time, never write anything
of a sexual nature. It's a big turn off.
2. All you did was brag about yourself, your accomplishments,
and your possessions in your letter.
3. You forgot to give her your phone number in case
she may want to call you instead of writing you back.
Some single women prefer to do it this way. If you just
write back with your address, she may get letters from
guys who include their phone number and she will pass
you up in favor of calling them. There's another factor
to consider. If you won't give out your phone number,
she may think that you are married or living with another
woman.
4. The letter you sent her looked like it was zeroxed.
This is a real big no no.
5. You forgot to send her a stamped reply envelope with
your letter. A stamped reply envelope helps to ensure
an answer back and it shows the woman that you are very
thoughtful. This makes a very good impression on single
women.
6. You forgot to mention what is was in her ad that
attracted you to write her. Single women love compliments
and they want to know why to chose to write her.
7. Your handwriting was very difficult to read. If you
have bad handwriting, have your letter typed. If she
can't read your writing, your letter is going straight
to the trash can.
8. Your return address is a post office box and you
don't give a phone number in your letter. Without a
street address and a phone number, she may become suspicious
that you are trying to hide something.
9. You screwed up in your letter by calling her "Babe"
or "Darling" or "Baby" or "Honey,"
etc. These words are just too strong to use on a woman
you don't even know.
10. Your letter was full of typos. Be sure and proof
read your letter or have someone else do it. If you
have a lot of spelling errors this is going to make
you look like a real "dumb ass."
11. You mentioned that you like to give or receive massages.
This statement has a sexual overtone to it and some
women will think that all you have on your mind is sex.
Don't mention anything about massages in your first
letter to a woman.
12. Your letter was written on notebook paper or even
worse, the paper is torn. Always use professional looking
stationary with matching envelopes when writing to a
woman.
13. Your letter lacked warmth and was very impersonal.
Well, I hope these tips help you figure out how you
screwed up on writing your first letter when answering
personal ads of single women. If you will follow these
guidelines, it will greatly improve your chances of
that "dream girl" writing back to you.
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