Now we find out what kind of woman you are really
looking for. Start by writing down a detailed and realistic
physical description of her. Is she tall or short? Thin
or big-boned? Does she have short or long hair? Is she
sexy, exotic, and alluring? Is she the girl-next-door
type? Does she have a casual appearance or a smart and
sophisticated look? Be sure to go for what you want.
What will get you excited? What kind of woman turns
you on? What traits do you look for in a woman? Does
she have slim long legs or curvy hips and thighs? Is
she in a certain age group? Does she work out regularly?
Athletic? Consider everything you can think of!
Now what personality type does your dream woman have?
Is she outgoing or shy? Does she love to go out and
socialize, or is she more of a homebody type that loves
to cook and sew? Is she a lady or a tramp? Or a little
of both? Write down anything you WANT. What are her
music and food preferences? Does she like sporting events?
Nightclubs? Traveling? Shopping? Does she like animals?
Children? Does she have any children? Does she have
a career? Is she a student?
You are going to find definite traits and requirements
that you're looking for in a woman. Don't feel shy,
or guilty, about these requirements. Never feel ashamed
for who you are and for what you want. There are many
kinds of women out there, and many of them will meet
your demands. You need to decide your minimum requirements.
You also need to figure out which qualities or attributes
you are willing to compromise.
As you progress through meeting and dating different
types of women your ideal woman may lose or adopt new
qualities. You must stay focused on what you want, even
if that keeps changing, in order to progress in a positive
direction. By knowing what you want, you'll be able
to eliminate undesirable types of women. You want to
meet and get women you desire with little hassles or
wasted efforts.
If you have answered the questions honestly you should
know more about who you are, and what you are looking
for. I'll bet that if you look over your analysis you'll
find that the woman you want has similar physical and
personality traits as yourself. No doubt she shares
similar interests and values, and she probably likes
guys like you. The information gathered here will be
used later on to advance your plan to meet and date
the woman (or women!) of your dreams.
If you have not yet gone through and answered the questions
above in writing! then STOP whatever you're doing and
answer them NOW!
It is in your own best interest to know who you are
and what you want. Below we talk about what women want,
so you need to know what you have going for and what
you might have to change to become more attractive and
approachable to women. Now that you know what YOU want,
it's time for you to figure out what women want. Once
you know what she wants, you can begin fine-tuning your
own behavior to better your odds of getting Miss Right.
Once you know what she wants, you then have the power
to appeal to any woman and make her want you.
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