What you think about and focus on is, inevitably,
what you are going to get out of life. You have to think
about new ideas, new goals and new women, or your mind
and behavior will exhibit the old ideas, patterns and
people.
If you don't focus on and visualize the woman of your
dreams and imagine ways of meeting her all the time,
then you'll probably end up meeting someone who resembles
your last girlfriend, or worse!
Avoid thinking about what you don't want. If you think
about not wanting a boring lazy woman, and you focus
on that, chances are you'll be meeting more of them
than any other kind of woman.
You must FOCUS on what you WANT in order to GET what
you WANT. This applies to all aspects of your life not
just women. If you just focus on obstacles you come
across, instead of your ultimate goals, you'll continue
to have setbacks! You have to focus and think about
what you want all the time.
Your First Impression
Within three minutes of meeting her, a woman will evaluate
you, judge you and stereotype you by your first impression.
Despite this being an unreasonable way to judge a person,
women do this to almost every man she meets.
Make those first crucial minutes work FOR you, not
against you. What is communicated and observed during
your first few minutes meeting a woman will dictate
your future relationship with that woman: you may become
friends, lovers, or possibly remain strangers.
We are all guilty of judging others based solely on
their physical appearances, and our personal prejudices
and shortcomings. As shallow as that may be, it's true.
You must use this judgment period to your advantage.
This time is your most valuable opportunity to portray
your most attractive qualities. The best way to make
your first impression work for you is to adjust your
physical appearance for greatest results.
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