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This is the time to start thinking about Who You Are.
This article will help you to figure out who you are,
and what you have to offer a woman. First step: describe
yourself. What would you say? Well, a good start is
a physical description. So that's what you will do now.
Get a pen and start writing.
Write a physical description of yourself. Include your
age, height, weight, physical build, and personality.
Be sure to describe who you ARE, and not who you think
you are, or who you think you should be. Build a realistic
description of who YOU are and what you represent. Be
honest with yourself, and go with your first impulses.
Don't leave out your weaknesses, but also be positive
and look for your strong points. Don't risk compromising
your self-expression and confidence by only listing
out all your inadequacies and hang-ups.
Such a list is self-defeating, whereas focusing on
your positive traits will make you feel better about
who you are; and when you feel better about yourself,
you'll feel more relaxed and confident around women,
too.
Women sense this, and they'll feel good being around
you. Take a look at these questions. Answer them honestly.
1. Are you reliable, honest, funny, educated, shy or
outgoing, practical or uninhibited?
2. Do you have a large social group of friends and
co-workers, or do you like to spend time with just one
or two important people?
3. What have your past relationships with women been
like? Who ends them? Why?
4. What is your current financial status?
5. What are your religious and political views?
6. What beliefs and values do you live by? Now, this
next group of questions is more important. You should
spend a little more time on your answers.
7. What activities do you enjoy?
8. What are you interested in?
9. What are your hobbies, if any?
10. Are you happy in your career, or would you like
to learn new skills and change jobs?
11. Who or what would you like to become?
12. If you could do anything to spend your time, what
would you choose to do?
Write this down while the ideas are spontaneous and
instinctual. Your first impulses are more likely to
be the truth. The more you think about your answers
the more likely it will be something you think you should
write, not the truth. Don't cheat yourself - you'll
be using this analysis to increase your chances of getting
the woman of your dreams. Of course, you can always
go back and add more ideas to your notes later.
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